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You ll get rejected a lot, but that s fine. Rejection from a woman is a
victory. It means that you had the guts to go for it with her.
As an alpha male, you have the strength to do what you want in life.
Because you want to get laid, you will persist with the women you desire. Right?
Ok, great! So remember with women you want to have sex with, your goal is to
persist until you either get laid or get rejected.
The Approach
Now I m going to let you on one of my secrets. The woman of your
dreams will never, as long as you live, knock on your front door to introduce
herself to you.
That sounds obvious, but unfortunately, many guys live like that s going to
happen. They never go out and talk to women, instead believing that if they work
hard and make lots of money, someday fate will just bring the woman of their
dreams into their lives.
Does this sound like you? Don t feel bad; it used to describe me.
The number one rule is that you, the man, must make the effort to
approach women. You must go out and take the lead and work at it. Women are
not going to just show up at your door.
Because they make up half of the human population, you can meet
women everywhere. The rules are different for each venue, so you need to
adjust yourself accordingly.
Where to meet women
As they travel throughout the day
This is my main hunting ground. You can find women who are all by
themselves at clothing stores, bookstores, coffee shops, universities,
laundromats, grocery stores, malls, sandwich shops, and banks, to name a few
places.
You ll have the most success approaching women who are by
themselves and not out with friends, coworkers, etc.
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This is mainly because women who are around other people are afraid the
others will see them as a slut. Remember, women in general have an extremely
high reverence for the opinions of other people.
Another reason to avoid women in groups is that you will often be cock-
blocked other people will interrupt the conversation, take the woman
somewhere else, and do various other things to prevent you from having sex with
her. Ever had a woman s friend jump in and say, Come on, we ve got to get
going, and pull her away? Uh-huh.
When a woman is by herself, she acts differently from when she is with
others. Even the most outgoing social butterfly will have a normal rapport-type
conversation when she is by herself with you rather than entertaining a group.
Online
Online dating can be a real opportunity for you, since a lot of guys look
down on Internet dating. Thus, they aren t there to compete with you. The
advantage of Internet dating is that it allows you an easy way to meet women
and skip directly to the one-on-one date that leads to the lay.
Women you meet online tend to be older than college age and rarely
younger than around 24. (Girls in their late teens and early 20s have so many
guys to choose from in real life that few of them bother with online dating.)
With women you connect with online, try to set up a meeting as quickly as
you can. Don t waste a lot of time with instant message or email chatting. Keep
any phone calls as brief as you d like, since you don t get laid on the phone. To
avoid wasting your time with a fat hog, make sure you insist on seeing
photographs!
Give sites such as eharmony.com a shot. That site, in particular, has
more women than men, due to a long personality test that most guys don t have
the patience to fill out.
With eHarmony's personality test, you ll be matched up with women who
have given similar answers on their tests, so answer the questions with that in
mind.
(In other words, if you're looking for a quiet woman, answer the questions
as if you yourself are a quiet person. If you go for a "natural salesperson" type of
chick, then answer the questions that way.)
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Be prepared to have your online dating experience be a numbers game.
Even my best-looking friends meet no more than 5% to 10% of their eHarmony
matches.
I'm at about 10%, not because of my looks, but because I've honed the
things I say to the girls, so that by now what I say to them has essentially
become highly-targeted direct marketing.
This brings up a point: test, test, and do more testing! The way eHarmony
works is that you and your matches will be able to ask each other a series of
questions.
You'll notice that on many of the questions, you'll get a better response
rate if you type in your own unique answers rather than choose from the multiple
choices available to you.
Try to be funny or witty with most of your answers. Only be serious with a
few. Don't be negative or down on yourself at all. Remember, you're an
advertiser selling a product (i.e., yourself).
Do the same thing with your profile. Where is a good source for a lot of
the things you put in there? From the women's profiles! Look for some of the
wittier phrasings, and then copy and paste them into your own profile. Sneaky,
but effective.
Experiment with different pictures. Eharmony allows you to post multiple
pictures of yourself, so take advantage of that.
Don't post "safe" looking pics of yourself with goofy, teeth-baring smiles
that make you look like you're someone's Cousin Steve. Instead be a little daring
with your pics. Post both action shots and shots of you chilling out.
Match.com is another good site, though it's one I haven't had nearly as
much experience with, since all my sexual needs get fulfilled through Eharmony.
An advantage of Match.com is that it allows you to fill out an extended
profile of yourself. Use this to the fullest! Write a complete sales letter for
yourself, using as much text as you can get away with. Remember, women are
reading your profile because you already have their attention, so they will eagerly
read it to the end.
You can pretty much assume the woman is attracted to you if she has
agreed to meet with you, given that you've already been pre-screened by her for
appearance and personality. So once you meet, it's a simple process to get laid,
since you'll be alone with her.
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If you're in the United Kingdom, I hear MatchNet.com is a good site,
although not being from the UK I have not tried it myself.
Speed dating
This is an event that s becoming increasingly popular in urban areas.
Here s how it works: about 20 single men and women take turns having 5-minute
one-on-one conversations. When the five minutes are up with one girl, you move
on to the next one.
I ve gotten a lot of easy lays from speed dating, so I highly recommend it
as a place to meet women. For some reason, these sorts of events seem to be
more popular with women than men, so use that fact to your advantage.
In your conversations, don t be overly factual when you answer questions
such as What do you do for a living? Be playful, unless you do something
incredibly cool.
I really like speed dating particularly for guys who:
a. Have trouble approaching strange women, since speed dating
forces you to.
b. Take their interactions with women too seriously and make
themselves too nervous. When you have 5-minute conversations
with ten women in the span of 2 hours, you re going to rapidly
become desensitized to what any of them think about you. Instead
you ll view dating for what it ultimately is a numbers game and no
big deal at all.
You ll find the same sorts of women at speed dating events that you find
on eHarmony i.e., mid-20s and older, and just a tad desperate. Getting laid [ Pobierz całość w formacie PDF ]

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